"I agree with you. I believe that NTs who are still figuring themselves out have a tendency to shy away from relationships because of the unknown variables involved. They're so focused on foreseeing all of the possible outcomes that they don't allow themselves to actually indulge in the relationship. I also think that less mature NTs are also (forgive me) selfish,unable to give a part of themself away to bond with someone else. They only see what they can gain from the relationship and not what they can give to the other person; they're worried about getting hurt or revealing too much about themself. A mature NT can put away all of their insecurities and appreciate the relationship for what it is without worrying about 'what could happen.'"

My god, this seems so right o.o